YOUNG ADULTHOOD 1

You are 18 years old and the world is in front of you! You live at home with your parents and brother Jack, who is four years younger than you. Jack is a math whiz and computer enthusiast, but having Autistic Spectrum Disorder (ASD) as well as epilepsy present some challenges for him with social skills, routines, and seizures. Your sister, Gwen, who is two years older than you, is working full time and lives with her boyfriend. She says she is still trying to “find herself.” She’s a little fickle, but has always been there for you when you’ve needed her. Your family has experienced the typical ups and downs over the years, but you feel lucky to have them as your family!

YAY! Your high school graduation is nearly here. High school was pretty easy for you and you kept up your grades. You are excited to start at a 4-year university in the fall. It is in-state not far from your home, but you’ll be living on campus. You are ready for the change and to take on the challenges and new experiences that college will bring.

And yet the conversations about adulthood continue. Your parents ask if you’re ready for adult responsibilities. You’re not sure how to answer. You think you’re ready for more independence but there’s a lot you’re still trying to figure out.

Your last living grandparent, your beloved Grandma, visits. A visit from her is always so special! She shares stories, imparts wisdom, and makes you laugh. You enjoy the quality time with her as well as with Gwen and Jack because you hardly see your siblings these days. Before Grandma departs, she slips you $20 of “spending money,” which is something she does every time she leaves!

YOUNG ADULTHOOD 2

Wow! And just like that, your life changes! You move to college and meet your roommate. You have a part-time job on campus and are getting used to classes, studying, and all the other new experiences.

After a few months under your belt, you reflect on how you are adjusting to the new things in your life. As is typical with life, everything is not always perfect, but you’re working on getting into a good groove and adjusting to the new experiences and challenges. You feel optimistic that adjustment will come in time, but need to continue managing the stress.

In terms of your recent romantic life…although you’re open to finding a special someone, none of the dates you’ve had has turned into a relationship.

You declare a major in Health Sciences. You feel good about your decision and think that area will suit you. You are ready to take more classes in your major.

On a family note, Gwen confides in you that while she and her boyfriend were “on a break”, she contracted a sexually transmitted infection from someone she was sexually involved with. She was relieved it was an infection that could be treated with antibiotics. She took the opportunity to lecture you about safe sex.

As you are busy with your professional pursuits, your parents have been supportive. You had talked to them about your career interests and they provided sage advice and asked good questions that helped you think through your options. They respect and support your career path decision.